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I know a bunch of you knew Jerry

jerrymcl89 from BAPS/Buffy fandom and Angel/Cordelia fandom and sports and politics and all the fandom stuff he was wonderfully part of.

I just received an e-mail from his sister that he passed away suddenly a few days ago; they don't exactly know why yet. She said I should post the news online so you all would know. Please feel free to share in communities where you knew he hung out and where you think people would want to know.

I am so sick with sadness. I'm going to miss him so much. I wish I could go to his wake or funeral, but just a bit too far.

His obit.

I'm going to send flowers on behalf of his online friends.

I'm still wrecked over this. He was one of the good people of this world. He could disagree with you without making you feel stupid, he could make you see the other side when you were insisting your way was the only way, and he had a dry, matter-of-fact humor that could lighten up any tense discussion.

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Oh no. Oh my gosh. I... oh my gosh.

I'm just sitting here crying... I can't believe it.

Thank you letting us know... and if you haven't already, please tell his sister thank you for getting the word out and send our condolences.

I'm just in shock.

Wow! I didn't really know him but I've certainly seen him around LJ and fandom forever and a day. That's so sad!

Oh my God, how horrible. He was never one of my LJ friends but I used to enjoy reading his very thoughtful, even-handed comments on various fandoms and TV shows when he posted on my friends' LJs. He must have been young. This is awful. I'm so sorry for his family.

XO, W. So sad.

Wendy, I'm so sad and so sorry. Do you know if Chen knows? I'll try to get in touch with her.

I'm shocked and deeply saddened.

He'll be greatly missed.

Please pass on my deepest condolences to his family.

Oh my GOD.

queenofattolia just told me over Twitter. I'm sitting here in my cubicle in shock.

I'll contribute.

I'm speechless, and terribly, terribly sad.

W, let me chip in, ok? I'm getting out of the hospital tomorrow hopefully.

I'm really just shocked

That's awful. We were never LJ friends but we did exchange comments now and again. He always seemed like a great guy.

What sad news!

Awful news. Jerry was one of the Good People. :(

Wow Jerry was a great guy! I have known him online for about 12 years I joked with him many times about that. I remember him from the old mIRC days

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I will chip in for the flowers just tell me how much.

I don't know what to say. I'm gutted right now.

But thank you so much for sharing this horrible news with us. I can't stomach the thought of never knowing what happened to him if he merely vanished from LJ.

He was a gentle, wonderful guy, and I still cherish the birthday party/baby shower we shared at a con in 2003.

He was too young, and I will miss him.

Thank you for letting us know, Wendy. I'm shocked and saddened by this news.

I didn't know Jerry, but it sounds like he was a lovely person. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Wendy, do you know if anyone has contacted LiveJournal to get them to turn Jerry's LJ into a memorial account so that it'll never get deleted? I remember people did this for

thamiris a few years ago. Let me know if you know anything about this, or if not, I can see about contacting them...